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Truth 101: Male Chastity
I am learning so many truths about male chastity, one being that weak men need not apply, this is for real men only. Being in chastity in no way makes you a bitch or weak. I find that most chastity sluts are very strong willed and able bodied. They hunger for the true denial. Not only do they hunger for it they live for it, they work for it and worship for it. There is something really special about a man that can abstain from his manly pleasures. One that will obey and be attentive to his Mistress. Another truth is that most men in chastity are very well endowed and struggle with the chastity devices. I do love the chastity slave that has no need for his cage, that has the will power and the strength to go commando. Yes those are some of my favorites.
If you are interested in the true denial, please feel free to comment at the end of this blog or email me at sophia@enchantrixempire.com. I look forward to many long painful session with you.
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Empress Sophia
I agree that it’s a strong man who surrenders into chastity controlled by his woman, who must also be strong. It takes physical, mental and emotional strength from both to enter into the deep level of intimacy, honesty and trust that develops.
But I disagree with words like “denial”. When combined with Tantra, the chaste male can be led into a place of continual bliss. The orgasmic energy usually lost through ejaculation can be stored, and continually circulated as waves of pleasure all over his body. And, of course, the chaste male is free to devote long nights purely to pleasuring his lady, so that she too rises ever higher into bliss.
I do agree, though, that there is no need for “devices”. Obedience to the command of his Mistress need not be a matter of physical restraint. Rather it can become an expression of how highly the chaste male reveres his Goddess.
Thank you for writing about Denial, Ms.Sophia. I’ve always practiced chastity without the device, which has been difficult at times, but love the energy from giving over complete rights to my cock to a Mistress. I have to admit, I’ve missed a “program” lately. Hopefully, I’ll be back on the right denied path soon.
Yes, it’s fun to play with chastity boys who have no need for a cage. But it’s also fun to push a boy to his very limits and just a little bit beyond, to make him so horny that he finally gives in only to be reminded that he’s physically locked up and can’t give in after all.
Very well put Steve, I do find that having phone relationships makes it very hard to put someone in a chastity device. I like to depend on their obedience and loyalty to me. And you are so right about the waves of pleasure that you can feel with the “denial”, not so much denial really.
Awwwwww wessypoo, I do hope you get back on the denail train before long.I would suggest getting back on a good program and get denied!
THey are so much fun to play! I do see your point on the keeping them in check. Just when they think they can have some pleasure, cage blocked!
Another point is that a cage actually acts as a barrier to the Mistress as well, Empress Sophia!
Instead of the Mistress being able to fondle or play with the cock whenever she wishes. Even if she has the key with her, she still has to find somewhere private so she can access the lock, look after all the parts (if necessary) as she takes them off. And then afterwards, get/wait for the erection to go down before she can lock it back up again!
It can certainly ruin any spontaneous desires the Mistress may have!
Good point peterteasetoy, cages can be used in a lot of useful ways. And can be a good punishment.
HI Mistress Sophia,
I am very into self-imposed denial…but long-term is very difficult to me. Sorry but long-term to me is @5-6 days. 😉
Do you think you could put me on a masturbation training program where I would be allowed some release as we work up to long term denial?? Steve’s comments above regarding tantric sound like a great path. I thought I had pretty good control but think I need training to get there. (Right now when I am in denial, I get irritable and can’t sleep….and what’s fun @ that? – LOL). Thanks Ms. Sophia.
~Panty Paulla
well i simply adore the the plan of denial that you have set in place for me yes i did beg for release but so glad you made me see the error of my ways. it is something that we have worked so hard at my consulting with other mistress n cutting some things that you have gotten me to become a servitude pet for you n that is a reward all in its self ty
One of the reasons why I am living the lifestyle, serving several in-person mistresses and calling the mistresses at LDW, is because I need a masturbatrix. I am under a plan, where I must be in chastity from 10 days to about 3 weeks, which is a “vacation” from stroking. The other part of the plan is to do – under the instructions of the mistresses – masturbation marathons. 🙂 These involve sessions, which can go from 4 hours to about 8 hours, with several breaks. I am ordered to always stroke that cock to the edge of orgasm; however, I am in log-term orgasm denial to please my mistresses. 🙂 I enjoy this lifestyle, because of the fact that it has taught me discipline. During those weeks, when I am in chastity, I am NOT stroking my long cock; however, since I have not failed my dominant mistresses, I have not been locked up in any chastity devises. There are times, when a mistress may require my presence for her entertainment, and that is when one of those short flogger whips is used to whip that penis and those balls. That whip reminds me that I am in chastity and that those balls MUST remain full. 🙂 Chastity, masturbation marathons, and orgasm denial go hand-in-hand. I find orgasm denial to be sexually pleasurable, and it pleases me to give my several mistresses pleasure and entertainment!