Are You A Chronic Masturbator
Masturbation can be your friend or it can turn on you and consume you. I would like to tell you about some of the ways I can help you control yourself and not become a chronic masturbator.
I do realize there are a few good things about chronically masturbating, one you get orgasmic pleasure. And seriously who doesn’t want more of that. Masturbating alone is a cheap way of getting pleasure without spending a ton of money. I can guarantee its not as much fun. You wont have to worry about a lover being disappointed, when it’s only you to please, how can you go wrong?
How to Control Chronic Masturbation
Well we can put you in chastity, but that is no fun in my opinion. We could feed you salt peter and hope your urges don’t bleed through. Chances are that’s an old wise tale and never truly worked. We could just smack it a few hundred times, but this is not a CBT blog. Let’s figure out a better way!
Let’s say you are now under the control of a Mistress, for your chronic masturbation. You must be very obedient and listen at all times to all instruction. Your first test would be to see how long you can go without masturbation. Keep a diary, a cock stroking diary! Like the sound of that. Start today, for one week go about your stroking like you are not being controlled. Second week, you may masturbate only 5 times, in a 7 day period. Chose wisely and BE HONEST! Report back to me either through calling, or emailing. You know I prefer the call. Let’s see what we come up with.
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Phone Sex Masturbatrix Sophia
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On one hand, a chronic masturbator that works at edging can actually be improving their sexual endurance for sex with a partner….obviously a man that can delay his orgasm will be hot to spend the night with! But constantly masturbating can definitely affect behavior and make them a slave to their cock. A Mistress definitely needs to step in and improve bad habits. It’s a good thing that finding a Masturbatrix isn’t difficult to do around here!
I had gained control for so long. It seems now I’ve lost it. Please help.
Any time! You sound pretty desperate, we should talk! Hang in there, help is here!
Dear Mistress Sophia,
I think that this is an excellent question. I follow 3 principles, regarding my masturbation practice.
First, I believe in quality masturbation time. Since I do not like those 10 minute quickies, I schedule my cock stroking time. Typically, this is once a week for 1 1/2 to 2 hours. I do not exceed that time limit.
Second, I do not let my masturbation schedule interfere with other things, which I need to get done in my life. Because of a busy schedule, I may not stroke for several days – up to a week.
Third, since I am also into orgasm denial, masturbation is a Tantric experience. This means that, during my quality time stroking sessions, I will bring myself to the edge MANY times, but I will not ejaculate. I will, twice a year do a masturbation marathon, where I set aside a larger block of time, which will involve stroking for up to 9 hours. I will edge LOTS of times and will NOT cum. My next masturbation marathon is being planned for May.
These 3 principles make my quality masturbation time a truly Tantric pleasure.
Thank you for a very interesting post!