Denial Phone Sex Sessions
One thing I have learned in my years of being an epic cock tease is that the longer I tease a man (and the longer he can hold off), the harder he cums when he’s finally allowed to. It’s such a simple concept, really, but it can be hard for guys to get used to the idea of not cumming when they think the whole point of masturbating is getting off!
It’s OK. It’s understandable. Men are terribly motivated by their cocks and are, to some degree, at least, controlled by them. So, yes, it takes time for them to learn to control their penises, rather than be controlled by them. But I can help speed up the process with a little cock control, which I know you guys appreciate quite a bit when you’re trying to break that life-long habit of trying to cum as quickly as possible.
In order to help you have a better, stronger orgasm, I can teach you all about orgasm edging. I’m sure most of you know what it is already, but just in case we have some newcomers out there, I’ll give you a quick explanation. Edging is the process of bringing yourself to the edge of orgasm (hence the name) and stopping before you cum. The more times you can do this, the better! Each time you hold back on your orgasm, you create more pressure bubbling under the surface, which means that when you finally do go over the edge, it’ll blow your mind as well as your load.
Don’t get edging confused with extended denial, either. Edging merely delays your orgasm during a single session of masturbation. Denial can extend many days or weeks.
So basically what I’m saying is, don’t worry–you’ll get to cum! And when you do, you’ll be eternally grateful that I made you wait for it.
*kisses*
Empress Sophia
Dear Mistress Sophia,
I realized at an early age that I needed to have that penis of mine controlled. This led me into the lifestyle of a sexual submissive male, where I would seek out dominant, strong, attractive, and beautiful women in the BDSM lifestyle. It is for this reason that I have several relationships with in-person and LDW mistresses. For many years I have been practicing edging and orgasm denial in that framework of guided masturbation. I really appreciate the distinction you make in your post regarding edging and extended denial. In my case, I practice both, and those practices have “merged” and go hand-in-hand with each other. The orgasm denial has allowed me to experience some great Tantric bliss, while my balls remain filled with cum. That too is a great feeling, which has transcended that need to orgasm. During those rare times, when I am granted permission to ejaculate, those orgasms are extremely intense. Importantly, because of female dominants in my life, I am learning to control my cock.
Thank you for an informative post!