When Does Cross-Dressing Start
I would say cross-dressing is different for everyone. The cause and effect of cross-dressing and when it actually began for you. It might have been something as simple as wearing an item that you found around your house as a child. Or the panties from a girlfriend you just couldn’t part with.
The feminine things that you gravitate too may have no rhyme or reason, only that it feels good at the time. So never feel as though you are any different than other cross-dressers, you may have different reasoning or frequencies, but you have the the passion for dressing in common.
Am I Gay For Cross-Dressing?
I will be the first to admit when I became aware of men dressing as women, my first thought was “you are gay”. But after a few years of learning the different aspects of cross-dressing I believe your sexuality is something completely separate. You can indeed love the pleasures of silky fine material and still be attracted to the opposite sex. So your sexuality is not determined by your fondness of women’s clothes.
I have found that some want to experience the total experience of being feminine by experiencing such things as strap-on play or actual real male interaction. That is one of my favorites, nothing better than a cross-dressing man loving men as much as I do. So under these circumstances, yes I would consider you Gay or Bi.
Cross-Dressing for Humiliation
Yes there is on occasion that a cross-dressing man is only doing so for the pure humiliation of it. I mean what kind of man wants to dress as a women? What kind of man wants to be humiliated by a Mistress and her lover? What kind of man wants to be made up with beautiful make-up? Well it’s a special type of man that indulges in cross-dressing humiliation play. Don’t get me wrong I love either or both, but oh how I love to humiliate you!
Oh don’t be scared I won’t be to harsh, after all I am a sensual Mistress!
*kisses*
Phone Sex Masturbatrix Sophia
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For me it’s the soft,satin,silky fabrics agsinst my soft waxed girlish smooth skin. Honestly when I wear bra/panty with heels, leggings/yoga pants with ankle/knee high boots and body con dress with slip and heels I look better dressed as girl then I do as a guy:( it’s only way I can get hard and off. I would so much love to find a women to dress me as her sissy for real but I’ve had no luck:( though girl at my salon said she would give me makeup app. I’m going to do this and let her have fun with me. I just need to find day/time. Do you think I should wear yoga pants or leggings with boyshorts/bra under my unisex sweater along with women’s boots? I’m afraid she will notice my hard on and I’m afraid I’ll make mess in my panties. If she asks why I want this done I’ll confess that I always wanted this and want to find women into making me her sissy boy.
I believe some men that cross dress use it as an outlet to relieve pinned up stress and some find it to be a sexual turn-on. Based on several of my conversations with cross-dressers their wives aren’t aware of fetish so it’s best kept a secret. Some have also gone on to say that his female side was so sensitive and loving that sharing it had enriched their marriage. So I imagine being a cross-dresser has its advantages as well as disadvantages.
You’re right Sophia, not all Crossdressers are gay or Bi. I do find it so interesting that a man would be enthralled by feminine attire, just like we are. Especially, if he has a real slender build that looks great in clothes, I love to dress him. I just can’t resist that urge.